My Heart’s Only Desire

Stroking a woman’s
Ego and validating her is not my
Mission in life

Never again will
I put a female upon a pedestal nor
Worship her

My heart is
Tired and doesn’t need the hassle
Any longer

It just wants to
Rest enjoy the years left to me in
Peace and quite

Without having to
Deal with a contentious female
Mucking it all up

Mister Nice Guy Bites the Dust

Last Wednesday my mother’s 9th partner and my 8th stepfather passed away and his funeral was held on Friday – my 59th birthday.

That’s right I spent my 59th birthday attending my stepfather’s funeral and meeting 2 of his 3 children for the first time.

The funeral service was held on the north side of Atlanta (Georgia), his burial was on the south side of Atlanta in the same cemetery where my father and his mother are buried.

My wife and I live approximately 40 miles west of Atlanta towards Alabama.

It is also the day I buried the Mr. Nice Guy inside of me.

During the visitation my wife went into her whiny little girl mode; so instead of attempting to appease her I put her over my knees and gave her a well deserved spanking.

Without putting a single finger on her!

I simply got up out of the chair I was sitting in next to her, turned my back on her and walked out.

After 20 minutes or so upon my return I deliberately ignored her and talked to other people.

That shut her down – at least until after the service and we were back in our car for the ride to the cemetery.

Even then I continued to ignore her complaints about needing to go to the bathroom.

After all she could have been proactive and got out of the car, while we were waiting and while I was talking to my nephew and his wife, and gone to the bathroom.

It’s not like I would have driven off and left her behind.

One of my younger brothers tried to pull a dominance game on me as well by trying to take my hat off while I was talking to one of my mother’s friends – as he informed me that I wasn’t supposed to wear my hat inside.

My response was to prevent him from removing my hat and deflecting his attempt to embarrass me; by asserting my authority as his older brother by ordering him in no uncertain terms to go sit in the chair next to my wife and keep her company.

All without raising my voice.

He was so surprised he actually obeyed my command.

Later he tried crooking his finger at me while he was standing next to our younger brother – so I ignored him. If he wanted to talk to me he could have walked over to where I was standing and engaged me in conversation.

I actually like to be nice and kind to others but I’ve gotten so tired and fed up of being walked on by others for my troubles that it is time to let go of mister nice guy.

Good Riddance!

Musings of a Girl Struggling to Survive in a Wicked World.

1 Timothy 2:9-15 KJV:

In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.

Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.

But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

For Adam was first formed, then Eve.

And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.


One day – hopefully sooner than later – women will come to the realization that the more an individual demands respect – especially when based on gender – the more unlikely one is to get the respect they think they are entitled too and the most likely to get the exact opposite. It’s been well over half a century since the second wave feminists began demanding that women be treated with “RESPECT” and the striking result is that women receive far less respect today then they did back then.

I know because I personally lived through those times.

I have spent the last fifty years watching as women who fell prey to the MEME of feminism drove their husbands out of the home and the lives of their children, the workplace and out of the educational field. And I have watched as the media has put women on a pedestal while becoming saturated with blatant disrespect for the male gender.

Today’s women will never know what real fear is until they have to live with the fact that at any time and with one lie their spouse can have them removed from their home, kicked out of their children’s lives and reduced to poverty all with a single phone call. Which has happened all too often to men who think as you do.

If you think that women act any better towards their sisters just wait until you enter the workforce and actually have to work with women who are jealous of your outward youthfulness as they stab you in the back and sabotage your career every chance they get.

I am also old enough to know that theory very rarely matches up with actual reality.

I just hope that you discover all of this long before you have children so that your knowledge does not have to come at the expense of any sons you may one day have.

Just to put things in proper perspective what do you think happens to the boys when Boko Haram raids a village? All the media ever bothers to report is about the girls who are taken and sold as brides to older men. However, the reality is that the boys left behind are left behind simply because they were murdered and those who were taken were forced at the point of bayonet to become child soldiers.

Down through the years women have blasted men for treating them as sex objects, making unwanted passes at them and outright sexual harassment.

The simple truth is that men were created to become sexually aroused whenever they saw their wife’s naked body while the Father Above implanted within women a sense of modesty that was designed to prevent them from exposing their nakedness to anyone but their lawful husband.

Madison Avenue certainly understands that men are by nature visually aroused which is why they use scantily clad pictures of photo shopped genetic celebrities (women who are sexy because they are young and fertile) to sell their products.

What the feminists won’t admit is that the average woman whether she is worldly or a Christian is well aware of the affects her fertile sexuality has upon the men she comes in contact with. Indeed that is why she chooses to leave the sanctuary of her home in order to appear in public with the curves of her body clad and clearly outlined in skintight jeans and shirts that are in reality at least one size if not more too small. As well as the low cut dresses whose plunging neckline not only points to her breasts; but exposes the top of her bosom to the eyes of any male onlooker whether he views her from behind while she is sitting down or when her breasts nearly fall out of her dress whenever she bends over for what ever reason. And the short shirts that give the causal observer a clear view of her nether regions when they ride up her legs as she gets up and down and moves around.

Just as Dinah, the daughter of Jacob, placed herself in the position to be sexually assaulted (Genesis Chapter 34) when she left the safety of her father’s home in order to visit the ungodly daughters of the land in which her family dwelled.

Just as a drunk driver whether male or female fully consents to the tragic consequences of their actions when they choose to get behind the wheel of a vehicle after having too much to drink.

So too do women whether ungodly or Christian fully consent to the consequences of being whistled at, commented upon, sexually harassed and or sexually assaulted by the way she dresses. All of which she has invited by choosing to ignore and defy the Biblical Counsel to dress and comport herself with modesty in order to indulge her sinful and prideful nature by dressing provocatively while appearing in public.

Indeed the woman who chooses to expose her nakedness and leave nothing to the imagination by the scanty clothing she deliberately chooses to wear out in public. Is just as guilty and as much a sexual pervert as the man who uninvitedly exposes himself to women and children.

Ladies (and I do indeed use this word loosely) your sanctimonious and faux outrage whenever a male showers upon you unwanted attention simply won’t wash any longer. So long as you continue to invite that treatment by the way you deliberately choose to put the curves of your physical assets upon display like candy in a store window by the way you dress.